I found a message that I had sent to to Paul on the 29th of August 2010 on his FB message board and it indicated that he had sent me a wink on Match.com dating sight. Basically, I caught his eye first and I replied back on that wink. One little wink and that was it:-). xxxx Here is that message I sent to him on the 29th of August 2010 on FB: Hello There, I thought I send you a quick message from facebook to welcome you and say thank your for confirming me as a friend:-). I am sure your daughters will help you out more in navigating and using facebook so you at least know the basics.........lol!!! Also, just wanted to say again, had a wonderful Saturday and Sunday with you and will definitely have to thank your daughter Charlotte down the road when we meet for fixing your age on your profile. I will be honest, I would have probably looked over you but in the end, age is irrelevant. I am very happy you winked at me and look forward to many more dates with you and as well as other things;-D. See you soon and have a good week!!!! Lisa xxxx